Pray that God will continue to guide them to make good choices as an adult. The freedom as a young adult can come with many temptations.
Pray for protection and health as they go about their daily work and play.
Pray they will want to continue to grow in their faith journey through Bible study and church attendance.
Several years ago, as I was driving by my child’s school and I decided to pray for my child. I prayed for his safety, focus, and friends. I prayed for the teachers, office, and other staff as they tend to all the kids during the day. Now it is a regular habit when I drive past the school.
One chore I am not fond of is folding clothes. But I have found if I use the time to pray for my child it helps me change my perspective on the task. Ask God to guide their steps as they put their socks on each day.
Your child may struggle with a class. Find out what time your child has the class and set your alarm to pray for them during this time.
Tell your child you prayed for them. It will mean more to them than you know.
"You did what?" I held my hands over my ears. "No, I don't want to hear the answer to that!"
Sometimes I ask a question in shock, but then I realize: No, I don't want to know.
One day, I learned that lesson the hard way.
It was an unusually warm, 80-degree spring day. My son, Anthony, who is 10, had been home from school for about an hour. He said, "Mom, I’m gonna go out in the backyard and play."
A few minutes later, he came back in the house but then headed right back out the door. As he walked towards the sunroom he took it out. It was a small, clear, plastic container.
I didn’t know what his plans were, but the possibilities were endless. Anthony loves to play with anything nature-related. It may be leaves, sticks, insects, or worms. He explores the designs and details of items he finds. He reads many books about nature with curiosity. I never know what’s going to show up in his little hands.
Anthony ran in the house ten minutes later with about 15 brown, creepy crawly caterpillars in the container. The lid was securely in place - which I was thankful for, I might add. But it grossed me out seeing the worms crawling around in the container.
I pointed and said, “Anthony you have to get those back outside! I don’t like those! And keep the lid ajar so the caterpillars can get some oxygen!”
He took them in the sunroom and began shaking them in the container with the lid on. The creatures must have thought a giant had captured them and was planning to make a smoothie out of them.
I said, "Anthony, get those outside before you spill them."
I felt relieved when he took them outside, but what happened next made my skin crawl just like the wriggling caterpillars.
Anthony walked in the house carrying the empty container. He acted like he had just saved the world by what he had just done. Boys are hunters by nature and he felt like he had accomplished his mission for the day. "You should be thanking me because those things were killing the trees,” he said.
I said, "What did you do with the caterpillars?"
"I buried them."
This is the part when I said, "You did what?" I stopped and put my hands over my ears. “No, I don't want to know!"
When I took my hands away, Anthony said, "I actually cut all their heads off with a stick and then buried them."
“Oh no, Anthony, those were God’s little creatures.” I was trying not to laugh.
Anthony’s smiled and sweetly replied, “Mom, I want you to know my heart was in the right place because they were killing the trees.”
I know that his heart was in the right place. Each summer we have a garden, and many times he will be in the garden picking insects and worms off my plants. In his little heart he felt like he was helping God’s green earth and the trees.
As he came back in the house, he said, “I need to take a shower I have caterpillar guts all over my shirt and some squirted in my eyes.”
I laughed. “Anthony, that sounds like the best idea of the day.”
And every day, the adventurer in him keeps me laughing and smiling.
Having a child with acute medical issues made us more aware of the many germs lurking and seeking someone to invade. It may sound scary but when your child wakes up in the middle of the night throwing up-it is worth trying something.
To keep your child well and cut down on days missed from school here are some things I have done to keep germs at bay. These things should be done first thing upon entering the house.
- Wash hands and face.
- Change clothes.
- Take off shoes at the door.
A few other things I have found helpful:
- Use paper towels in the bathroom.
- Drink infused water with fresh oranges, limes, lemons during all seasons.
Hoping you have a healthy, happy school year!
Marvelous Monday was celebrated with donuts, post-it notes, and gift cards.
Recently, I learned about an act of kindness that doesn't cost much. Buy a colorful pack of post-it notes and write encouraging phrases (example- Have a great day! Jesus loves you. etc) and then place the sticky notes in public places such as restaurants, stores, or any place a smile is needed.
So tonight a friend, Rachel Blackstock, and I went and stuck post-it notes in random places at a few local stores.
We decided to spread a little more joy by going to a local donut shop and purchasing a couple of gift cards to hand out to random people.
We prayed and ask God to lead us to the people that should receive the cards. We ended up going back to the shopping center and I had the privilege of watching Rachel speak with a man and women in Spanish and see them respond by taking the card, smiling and thanking Rachel in their language.
Just yesterday, my son, Anthony had requested a trip to the donut shop. He was thrilled when I returned home carrying two glazed donuts in a small paper bag.
It doesn't cost much to sprinkle a little joy into people's lives we just have to be willing to step out and do it.
Children enjoy getting new crayons and coloring books. Coloring is a relaxing hobby that is not just for kids. Adults have jumped in on the fun. Thousands of uniquely designed coloring books are available at bookstores and online.
Recently, I purchased a purple note-taking Bible with my name engraved in silver letters. The margins of the Bible have pictures and scripture verses to color and blank lines for journaling and thoughts.
I had never thought that coloring could be a form of worship until I received my new Bible. People worship by singing, dancing, and praying. So why not coloring?
I start by picking a page to color. Then I read the scripture on those pages and begin coloring and thinking about the story I have read. I have found that I spend more time pondering the scripture as I color.
Joshua 1:8 says, "Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful."
If coloring allows me to meditate on the word for longer periods of time then this would be a great worship tool for anyone at any age.